A Month of Grief - APRIL

 A Month of Grief






April is particularly a difficult month as my dad died April 7th and was buried April 12th, 1995.

My mom died April 28th, 2019 and my little doggie was born on April 1st, 2010 and is also no longer around.

And lastly my birthday is on April 29th. 

So these dates are fairly edged into my mind for life. I cry myself to sleep still many a night when I remember my mom, dad, and my little doggie.  Its all I ever lived for in this lifetime.



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